Rules of the "Kol D'mama Daka - A Still Small Voice of Hashem"

By Reuven Ashenberg

A "Kol D'mama Daka" - is a "Still small voice of Hashem" through the neshoma of a person that provides guidance as well as gives over message(s). A Kol D'mama Daka helps a person connect to Hashem in a deeper spiritual way. Through the use of a Kol D'mama Daka, one is better able to stay centered in holiness and not be drawn after the other voices within a person. The guidance of a Kol D'mama Daka exists within the framework of Torah Judaism and it also provides guidance for a person's individual soul path. A Kol D'mama is a gift from Hashem and it is to be used in the service of Hashem and not for one's personal usage or gain. A person needs to tune into his neshoma by hearing his Kol D'mama Daka and not hearing the ego, id, or other unconscious emotional parts of oneself. Below are rules of the Kol D'mama Daka that should be followed to have success and a deeper connection to Hashem.

Accessing Kol D'mama Daka

1. It's very important to learn and study the Torah and do the mitzvahs of Hashem. In this way, your Kol D'mama Daka will be strengthened and connected to Hashem and His Torah.


2. You should come from a place of love when accessing Kol D'mama Daka for clarity and openness.


3. One needs to focus on tuning into his Kol D'mama Daka to get that particular guidance that he needs. One can connect by using his Jewish name (In Hebrew - your Hebrew name (son/daughter of) mother's Hebrew name) to gain access and clarity.


4. The more your follow you're Kol D'mama Daka, the more it will become strengthened and easier to hear. The stronger the Kol D'mama Daka becomes, the more careful a person has to be to get clear guidance.

Working with Kol D'mama Daka

1. You need to make sure your question(s) are clear and all information is stated properly to your Kol D'mama Daka. It is important to ask your Kol D'mama Daka a question and when you receive the answer, do not repeat the question over again to try to get another answer. If you are given a task to complete at a later time, one must not repeat the question, but ask if the task has changed or needs to be updated.


2. You need to follow your inner-guidance and follow through all the way to completion with the content of the message you received. The steps of the guidance must be followed exactly as directed and not be changed unless checked again by the Kol D'mama Daka.


3. If your Kol D'mama Daka tells you do something drastic and unexpected, you need to double check for accuracy.


4. If you are unsure of a particular message that you have received, please check again with your Kol D'mama Daka. If you can't get a clear answer, clear yourself by saying the following statement three times "Tameh Tameh Brach Licha Mikan."


5. If one is still unsure of an answer that he received, he can look up a passuk from the Torah by being guided and interpret what is stated. It is very important to make sure that the interpretation that you have received is proper and a clear message.


6. If one needs to double check a particular message, he can ask someone else who has a Kol D'mama Daka who can verify it for him. If there is not an agreement about the message between the two parties, then each one needs to clear out the "absence of kedush" and/or "interference" and try again to come to a consensus of agreement with Kol D'mama Daka. If after each one clears out the "absence of kedusha", there is still no agreement, then the person with the original message needs to follow his own Kol D'mama Daka.


7. If you have a message that you have received and are unsure of its meaning, seek a Rabbinic Spiritual mentor for clarity and guidance. Once you ask the person for assistance, it is very important to follow through on what he tells you to do.

Removing of Blockages to Kol D'mama Daka

1. For one to get a proper message, ones needs to be in a proper alignment of spiritual, emotional, mental, and physical levels. One needs to be relaxed without any anger or fear. One needs to turn his focus to Hashem.


2. A Kol D'mama Daka can never contradict Jewish law. If one seems to do so, you must recognize that the message you are receiving is incorrect and should not be followed and listened to at all. Check with a Torah scholar to make sure that you are following Jewish law.


3. Spiritual disconnection can also interfere with one's Kol D'mama Daka.


4. To properly receive a true message, one needs to stop, focus, and clear himself from any interference and "absence of kedusha." For one to get clear messages, one needs to be in a place of purity and not in a place of unholiness (bathroom). There can be people who can be toxic and negative for you and environments that can interfere with receptivity of Kol D'mama Daka. One needs to make sure that he stays away from them and surrounds himself with positive people and surroundings.


5. You need to pray and ask Hashem for guidance and support by turning to Him. You need to receive a proper message from Hashem and not include the ego, id, or other parts of ourselves in the guidance process.


6. One needs to separate out one's personal desires and needs from guidance so one can find out what Hashem wants and desires from us and not what one desires or wants.


7. One's diet also needs to be proper to receive clear guidance from Hashem. (Coffee, chocolate, soda with caffeine, corn, and dairy products are some foods items that can interfere with proper guidance.) One needs to check his diet to make sure he is eating the proper foods.


8. It is best not to try to get messages from Kol D'mama Daka when you are tired or not feeling well since you are not in the best alignment and clarity to get them.


9. A severe blockage to one's Kol D'Mama Daka can caused by medication and drugs that one takes. You should check with your Kol D'Mama Daka before using any drugs.

Contact Information

Reuven Ashenberg, M.A.